So many
months have passed since I have written/translated my daughter’s last post that
I do not know what to start with…
It would
take me a lot of time to translate everything and I think there is no point
because no one would like to get through it…
So in a
very short summary…
In the
beginning of August 2011 doctors suggested tracheotomy as a chance to get out
of respirator and maybe even going home, and we eventually agreed. Thus on 10th
of August it was made.
Taking out
the intubation tube made it also possible to teach Maria of normal eating, but
it was a very difficult and long process…
However,
what happened next was something we dreamed about for a very long time.
At the end
of August first trials were made to take our little daughter off the ventilator.
Initially she was on CPAP. The first day when she was on her own breath since
she was born was on 6th of September. However, she needed some
oxygen (and she still does), but it did not matter. An unbelievable day came
when after 8 months spent on intensive care wards Maria was transferred to a
“normal” one.
Then, at
last, on 21st of October we went home. After 8,5 months spent in
hospitals we were able to put our little treasure in a bed that waited for a
very long time…
At home we
fought with eating and we were losing our hope after 2 months, but on Christmas
Eve 2011 Maria gave us a most precious gift – she started to eat normally. The
feeding tube was taken out by mistake by us, but we decided not to put it again
and she managed.
Winter
passed and we had not gone back to the hospital even once, though we were told
we were expected to be coming back very often. Spring also was moving fast, so
we started looking for ways of taking out tracheotomy tube, because we
considered it was needed no more. However we could not find any doctor in Gdansk that would help us.
Eventually we found a doctor in the South of Poland in Rabka-Zdroj that was
able to undertake such a thing. We went there and on 7th of May the
tube was taken out…
And now the
entirely new chapter.
On 19th
of July 2012, after many weeks of preparation we have moved to the United Kingdom.
We settled in this country in Northern England, in Darlington.
We rented a house, found a job and we want to spend here a couple of years.
Our
daughter has already been seen by a lot of specialist, mainly in Newcastle. Respiratory
doctor said that the lungs are not so bad… Cardiologist confirmed that the
heart condition is very serious, but he has done a couple of successful
operations of this kind of heart defect. Nevertheless, it never is one surgery but maybe 6-8… However, the decision whether the surgery will be undertaken or not has not been made yet. What worries the doctors most is that our
daughter is so small. Some genetic examinations have to be done to check
whether she do not have some rare syndrome that would influence her life and
possible surgery.
Eye doctor
– Mr. Shafiq – is very positive and he said that he is happy that Maria sees
something with the left eye (the right is gone…). She was given beautiful
glasses which help her for her short sightedness.
And so we
are moving forward… At the moment we are looking for more physiotherapy, as we
reckon 1 hour a week not enough. And we would gladly find some Bobath
therapist… We also fight with oxygen, but Maria is so addicted to it that is
not able to be without it. Now she is on 0.5 litre/minute whish is not much,
but still not “0”.
We also
fight with feeding her, but this goes very slowly, especially recently, maybe
due to the teeth which are coming out all the time…